Thursday, August 8, 2013

My moral GPS...where am I exactly?

Finishing out my summer with an ethics course taught by a delightful professor who, for our final assignment, asked us to draft our own personal codes of ethics. Hmmm. Perhaps not everyone really wants to know what I really believe, or always on what I base my decisions. So I had to get serious, a mammoth task, my friends, and really think about what guides me, what I value, and what I believe. Being a bit of a word-aholic it was difficult to succinctly say what I felt. I had to meet a deadline and turn in my composition, yet it still feels unfinished. I suppose because I am torn between what I feel I should believe and ways I conduct myself, and how I am in real life. Too, it is difficult to encompass every entity that ethically I might encounter. How does one lay out a complete blanket of his or her beliefs without smothering the readers? Eh...take a deep breath....



What guides me? My life's experiences have resulted in a mosaic of my self, albeit ever-changing. I'm guided by about what I feel passionate, including foremost, the belief that I am not in control of my life or world. My Creator has ultimate power in that. What I can control is how I perceive and react to my environment and circumstances. I know I am human and flawed, yet am aware of my obligation to give love freely just as my Savior does for me. Each person has his or her gifts; is precious, yet imperfect. I must be careful not to judge, as I do not wish to be judged by others. Love your enemies; their evil comes from a place of hurt and sadness.
Growing up, I quickly understood there must be an investment of time and effort to earn desired things. Consequently, I also learned to carefully choose and set attainable goals. Very little was handed to me as my parents tried to instill early on a work ethic that, as a child was difficult to grasp, but now I proudly find invaluable. The importance of education was also impressed upon me, not just by means of a classroom, but by observing and enjoying the many resources afforded one, if time is taken to appreciate them.

I continue to thrive on personal success and accomplishments on which I set my sights. Moreover, I find myself striving to excel in my endeavors, motivated by healthy competition with a heaping dose of intrinsic motivation. Most fortunately, I was allowed to mature in a home where acceptance was given, taught, with undue pressure to succeed absent. Instead I lived in a place where love abounded, even when money or material things didn't. This often, however, created within me an internal struggle as the world is not so accepting and loving, thus creating a desire prove my worth.

As a result of my life experiences, these are what I value:

Humility: Perfection is unattainable. It is okay to admit you are wrong or that you don't know something while still projecting confidence in yourself. Share your gifts but continue to identify and strengthen that which needs improvement. You need not tell others how great you are, as your actions will lead others see it for themselves. It is okay to have drive and to some degree, an ego, but being humble will allow you to have an impact on others that could be life-changing.

Tolerance: We are all inherently unique and different. We must respect and extend understanding of others even when it conflicts with our own beliefs. Actions stem from places of emotion and convictions. Seek ways to connect with those with whom we see little in common.

Commitment/Tenacity: Pride in ones' work is evident and telling. What you have taken the time to do, should be done to the best of your abilities. Consult others, accept their ideas and constructive criticism be tireless in your efforts towards personal and mandated goals.

Professionalism: Show tact and decorum to meet any given situation. Keep a dignity about yourself and the surrounding in which you work. Strive to make equitable and integrous decisions. Don't allow emotions to dictate your actions or words without a proper rationale of thought. Be mindful of who and what you are representing in all that is conducted.

And finally...
Humor: Enjoy what you do and the people you are with! Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself. Be aware of situations that need levity! Laughter has the power to connect and even heal. Use it with care- but find amusement whenever possible.



What I believe....

*Education is a mission. Those who feel called to the cause of influencing the future, including leaders, should be willing share visions and be motivated by the values thereof. One in the field must be willing to unite for the greater cause. Ethically, one must put aside personal differences and judgments that interfere or compromise the mission.

*Teach kids content, not content to kids. I believe the responsibility of educators is to work tirelessly towards successfully reaching students' needs- academic and intellectual. Be mindful of dignity among children when helping them learn. Even with convictions about subject matter, flexibility and willingness to try new approaches and strategies MUST be an attribute. Respect the backgrounds and upbringing of each individual and not hold against any one individual the knowledge he or she has or lacks.

*My ethic is leadership as stewardship. Decisions should be based on morals (with adherence to all laws, rules or policies) ; including commitment to, and awareness of , the importance of our roles as educators. That should be the guiding force and motivations for deciding what is ultimately best for kids. In the process, I personally have expectations of those I lead and am not “above” doing any of the jobs asked of my colleagues. While a a leader is empowered by authority, it is to be used wisely and humbly but with resolution clearly communicated.

*Relationships are crucial to success. Fostering investment in outcomes and goals of the entity is key! The educator guides others to help create solutions or ideas and build rapport with those who follow; thereby invoking support for what they have helped create. Abstain from “writing off” anyone; and exhaust all efforts to find the positive attributes of others. Time to forge connections must be made.

*We must grow and develop like any other professional. I cannot claim to be an ultimate expert or have mastery of any aspect of this profession. I stay committed to the development of my craft by keeping myself apprised of practices and ideas, both well established and on the forefront- with the mindset that learning is never finished. The world in which our school reside is ever-evolving. Educators should serve as resources, mentors to others, and help realize strengths and weaknesses through reflection and collegial discussion. Conversely, we will make mistakes; and should value the learning experience they thereby create.

* Education is empowerment. The far-reaching influences of educators and their leaders exceeds the walls of any campus. We are given standards for which we are accountable for by the state and nation and have been charged with helping students attain knowledge and skills. A true professional knows how to facilitate others with this goal, but also maintains a vision beyond the day or school year. He or she sees the power and potential embodied by professional learning communities and has the means and wherewithal to not lose sight of the heart of schools: the students and staff.

Afterword....

I often recall one of my first geometry lessons in elementary school when the teacher proclaimed that a true line never ends- it continues forever in either direction. My younger brain struggled with the concept. Now further into my life's journey, I clearly grasp the notion of continuity especially as it relates to learning. With such infinite lengths,those called to be a part of communities that teach share a passion for imparting knowledge, ideas, understandings, and appreciation for the world around them. Moreover, those called to walk the never-ending line must be prepared to invest time to understand those with whom they work and instruct, be it in a public school setting or any other setting. Teaching is a respected profession and position IF the individuals choosing to take part uphold the understood standards set by our predecessors . Conversely, along the line of education come decisions; an innumerable amount of choices to be made. A simple scientific principal resurfaces: For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Ethically, as both a human being and a teacher, considering the effects of one's choices is a moral responsibility that is not to be taken lightly. Many a plaque and poster have read “Teaching is a work of heart.” One must remember that it is not only his or her heart with which the work will take place. Education involves constant human interaction. And as human are inherently precious and flawed, their differences extend infinitely in either direction.